Tips from TEDx Coach Sébastien Roger
In this episode of Authors Who Lead, I dive into an enlightening conversation with Sébastien Roger, a multifaceted entrepreneur, coach, and speaker. Roger’s journey spans from creating a feature documentary to teaching languages, and ultimately, coaching individuals to fine-tune their public speaking abilities. Through his reflections, Sébastien Roger offers insights on authenticity, the power of small steps, and the importance of emotions in storytelling.
Understanding Success Beyond the Self
I open the discussion with an essential reminder: entrepreneurs often mistakenly believe that their success revolves around them. However, true fulfillment and impact come when they shift the focus to the people they serve. This philosophy aligns seamlessly with Sébastien Roger’s approach. As someone who speaks 12 languages and has coached dozens of TEDx speakers, Roger has spent his career helping others find their voice and connect meaningfully with audiences.
The Unseen Influences and Early Beginnings
Sébastien Roger attributes much of his linguistic prowess to his mother’s influence and a sense of not quite belonging to any one culture. This feeling fueled his desire for a more inclusive, borderless world. This drive to unite people through the universal language of emotions is central to his coaching. Sébastien’s mission goes beyond the traditional confines of entrepreneurship; he aims to create platforms where people can share their messages authentically and powerfully.
Crafting a Message That Resonates
When I question Roger about the challenges in helping people craft messages for the stage, Sébastien emphasizes the importance of being real and expressing genuine emotions. In a world often dominated by superficiality, audiences crave authenticity. According to Roger, it’s the raw, unfiltered emotions that elevate a speech from good to unforgettable.
Sebastien’s ability to blend his diverse experiences—from teaching languages to creating documentaries—enables him to support individuals in shaping their narratives. Whether it’s for TEDx or other platforms, his coaching focuses on clarity and authenticity. The goal is not just to speak but to connect, inspire, and leave a lasting impact.
Small Steps for Big Impact
A recurring theme in the conversation is the importance of taking small, deliberate steps. We both agree that waiting for the ‘big break’ often leads to missed opportunities. Instead, serving even a small audience with full commitment can create momentum that opens doors to larger platforms. The consistency of showing up, refining one’s message, and delivering with passion builds a sustainable career in public speaking and beyond.
Setting Intentions and Serving Others
The discussion also highlights the power of setting intentions. Whether for a speaking engagement or entrepreneurial endeavor, having clear personal goals and understanding the desired audience impact is crucial. Roger’s career trajectory, marked by helping over 30 TEDx speakers and founding Impact Millionaires, underscores this principle. He emphasizes that focusing on a cause bigger than oneself leads to both personal fulfillment and substantial impact.
Navigating Fear and Embracing Vulnerability
One of the biggest hurdles in public speaking, as Sébastien notes, is the fear of expressing genuine emotions due to societal expectations. He encourages speakers to find emotions that resonate authentically with their audience. I resonate with this, particularly relating it to the fear many have of writing books. Practicing vulnerability and honesty, whether on stage or the page, is what engages and moves people.
Expanding Horizons: Future Aspirations
Looking ahead, Sébastien Roger expresses his goals of expanding his impact both online and offline. By focusing on authenticity and vulnerability, he aims to build a stronger online presence while also resuming in-person events and retreats. His commitment to making people feel included and valued remains at the core of this vision.
Dream Big and Be True
My final takeaway for listeners is to dream big and not let fear or excuses deter them from their potential. This aligns perfectly with Sébastien Roger’s message of authenticity and small steps. In a world hungry for genuine connection, the courage to be real and the dedication to serve can create profound impacts on oneself and the world.
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That’s all for this week. If you have a message inside of you that needs to be written, today is the day to start. Don’t delay—take action.
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